Yup – moving day for the furniture. Oddly more satisfying than work. D’oh

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My happiest moment today:

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It was my morning of coffee and farmers market with Stacy. Followed by my first and only real substantial load from the old house AND it was perfectly timed.

3 small boxes, 2 medium boxes, a suitcase, the dog’s foam pad and a sweet little boy. ALL of this by 11:45 in the morning and right on plan.

For Adam’s nap I unpacked and slammed coke Zero. When Emily arrived I hit the hardware store and old house ( more packing and unscrewing stuff from walls ) I also changed my address online and grocery shopped. Whew!

Then my first dinner in the new house of taquitios and salsa and grapes that we ate on the floor since we have no furniture. Anyone up for a visit to Camp Zane?

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My happiest moment today:

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Right now! I’ve made 4 runs to the new house today and each load is unpacked. And with a 2 year old in tow – I’m not superman and I’ll true confession in a moment. In fact, I’m frazzled.

Clothes and bedding washed, food in fridge, basic pots snd pans and dishes for 3 days,bathroom cleaned and stocked. Nap time at the new house and snacks. AND bath time in the new house.

Adam is back in his Pak-n-play for a good night’s sleep. I turned my back on him for 3 minutes and he trashed his room. Then had the nerve to throw a tantrum. So, I has one right back at him. It freaked him out and I don’t think I’ll do that again.

But that’s not all. I heard the front door open and the screen later and he was in the front yard; there is no fence or gate at the street. I tore after him and stopped him and scolded for the millionth time.

As he was walked to the house I tapped his diapered butt to speed him up. I was also coming down off my scary moment and I realized how kids get spanked. I freaked myself out. I’ve never laid a hand on him and I didn’t like the hurry-along-tap either.

After this I slowed down, had him help, asked him to check Zack and other tasks. It occurs to me as I’m writing that he’s under duress too even if he’s not packing and lugging boxes.

Tuesday the movers haul the big stuff over.

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Taking a break from moving at our new Coffee Bean

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My happiest moment today:

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Seeing the floors done! After multiple unforeseen setbacks ( oil, chemicals, bubbling ) they are done and beautiful. I cannot wait to move in – very Cape Cod. Lots of rugs and dark colors will be grounding the color so everyone can relax ;0).

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I put the “fairy” in nefarious

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My happiest moment(s) today:

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Hard to decide:
1- packing kitchen, closets and miscellaneous in less than 3 hours ( I know the best women who clean houses )
2 – Adam helping me pack 2 boxes ( it was good to engage him
3 – a surprisingly good microwave dinner since all the pots and pans are packed
4 – playing at the dinner table after our meal with trucks
5 – playing with doors in the house. For some reason this is fun. And Adam was really into closing us both into a room so we could be alone. It’s funny how he’s happy with just us

It all came to a crashing end when he jumped off zack’s chair and face planted into carpet. He’s always jumping off of things and he must have caught his toes. At any rate he did it behind my back and it’s the funniest thing – he was really crying out of pain and surprise and after a few minutes he asked to be put in his bed. He was still crying but wanted to bury his head in the pillow and be left alone.

Funny how some people want to be with someone when they are hurt and others want to be left alone. (I’ve always been the latter but want AAA to want me when he’s hurt. But he’s like me.)

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Finally starting to really pack – yikes! But I don’t move until Tuesday – double yikes!!

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My happiest moment today:

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I had a feeling and it had been a while – yep, AAA is growing like crazy. Again in the hallway and his marble head was above the hash marks.

36 inches tall and almost 35 lbs. He’s half my height. ( and 1/5th my weight ) The gymnast career I’d wanted for him is slowly fading.

Honestly, what does the pediatrician know about this? They said he’d plateau in growth and not to expect anymore big spurts. They said he’d be 5’9″ and he’s over half way there!

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Last night I fell asleep on the sofa at bedtime before my son did at 8 PM : /

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